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Be Populair:

The first Impression.
If you really want to meet someone, be serious about how you introduce yourself. Use a really nice picture. One that brings out the best in you. If you don’t have a picture that you really like, make an appointment with CheckPoint Color and have a professional picture taken. You don’t have to look like a model. Just your best.

You’ve taken an important step by joining SINGLES, so don’t stop now. Go to Knipoog and enjoy a wonderful massage, a facial, a pedicure and a manicure and have your hair done. Why not do that before you have your picture taken? By the way, this is not just advise for ladies. Men should look their best too and they’ll enjoy the facial and the massage just as much.

Your profile.
Be positive. If the first sentence reads something like. “I am lonely, depressed and have been for the last 10 years. I don’t like going out, music, soap………” Well you get the picture. That’s not going to attract anything but flies. Like yourself while writing your profile and try to look at yourself through someone else’s eyes. Have a sense of humor and be honest.

What you’re looking for.
Be specific. Not too specific, but close. If you don’t like bold men, say so. If your height is 4 feet 2 inches, you probably are not looking for an NBA player. If you’re allergic to smoking, first or secondhand. Check the no smoking box. But if you’re colourblind… who cares. If you are vegetarian and he or she is not, no problem.

Show some interest.
If you see a picture you like and read a profile that appeals to you, make contact, You have a nickname. Nobody knows you yet. It’s safe. You would like it too.

And with showing some interest, we mean some interest. Don’t go all overboard. Take it one step at the time. Don’t in your first e-mail write things like “You could very well be the (wo)man of my dreams that I am going to marry and have kids with” That might scare people away. It’s also not wise to send an e-mail, wait 5 minutes, send a reminder, and then start nagging about why you still didn’t receive an e-mail back.

Welcome new members.
Check regularly whether there’s a new nice face “on the block”. Be the first to make contact.

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Dating tips for women:

  1. Be on time!! I don’t care in what magazine you read it , there is no such thing as” Fashionable late” If you more than 30 seconds late, he will start to panic that he’s been stood up. That isn’t a good start for your fist date.

  2. Be aware, wear nice clothes, but not to revealing, it’s really uncomfortable having dinner while your date is staring at your chest the whole time.

  3. Eat something, if he is taking you out to dinner, please eat. If you don’t eat the guy thinks he messed up.

  4. Give him a chance, it IS a first date, so he maybe trying superhard to impress you, if he acts wimpy, nervous or just weird, take it as a compliment. He really wants you to like him!!

  5. Show your enthusiasm, this is no time to be shy, so if you like him, let hem know by smiling at him,touch his arm and laugh at his jokes.

Enjoy yourself, stop going down the checklist in your head, relax and follow these guidelines and your first date will be a perfect one.

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Dating tips for men:

  1. Arrive on time!!! If you are picking your date at home ,show up on time, but not to early, your date will not want you to see her before she is completely ready. If you are meeting her someplace, show up early. You should always arrive before your date!!!

  2. Bring flowers, it may seem like an old cliché, but the fact is that women still like flowers!!

  3. Treat her like a lady, being a gentleman, being a gentleman is another custom that seems to be going out of style. Open doors ,this applies for cars and buildings. When entering a building ,open the door and allow her to to enter first, never walk in before the woman.

  4. DONT TALK ABOUT YOUR WORK, as a rule of thumb, you should never, ever talk about your work, if your date asks about it, even then, answer her question, but keep it brief. Men who talk about about their jobs make very boring dates.

  5. Have a sense of humor, you’ve heard women say is a thousand time”I want a man with a good sense of humor” It’s true!! Women wnt their dates to show them a good time and make them laugh. Try to make your date laugh or at least smile with your wit and charm

Dating may never be easy to some men, but by following these guidelines, you can ensure that you and your date will have a good time. And remember, good first dates turn into good second dates!!

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